In the next four weeks you’ll be caught in a discussion with your friends about cybersex and the difference between it and real sex. Some of your friends will be traditional and will consider cybersex at the level of masturbation and nothing more, some other will consider it stimulating and creative. You don’t have a real opinion but you consider cybersex more difficult to realize than real sex, as there are more variables included. You think you have to become a movie’s director to realize an embrace in the internet?
In the next month you will discover cybersex, you will find new friends on the internet and you will start chatting. But some of them will ask you for more so you will have to set up a setting, silently in your room, a place for the computer, a place for you and some lights to light up your body. At the end of the month you will enjoy so much the play that you will buy underwear specifically for this kind of pleasure. Don’t get downhearted by who is asking to much from you, you will find the right lover even this way.
This month I have to ask you a question about sex. Which is, for you, the best part of it? Many would say that the best part of sex is coming together, others, like Francesco Alberoni (the author of the italian book Erotismo) affirm that the best part of sex is contained in an image, the act of touching, by the male sex, of the mouth of the uterus of a woman. So I repeat, what is for you the best way to represent sexual harmony?
This month you will find a very passionate lover, but with one weird quality: a very big sex. At the beginning you will try to protect yourself from this keeping a hand over his sex when you are making love, but as you go on he keeps pulling inside you, and when he is coming he is desperately pulling in you, and the hand in front of your sex doesn’t help that much. But he is so tender when he is coming, moving over and over taken by the spasms of pleasure that you will not feel bad any more, you will only feel understanding.
My compliments, you are in the first place of the month as you have found the perfect partner, lovely, clever and responsible. You think that he is perfect and you imitate most of his habits as if he was to choose for you what is best. In the bed you are his pupil, always disposed to learn, but with an inclination for disobedience that gives pepper to your relationship. The problem is: how long will you tolerate to be with someone you consider better than you, and how long will it take to get you tired of it and searching for a partner that you can consider equal to you?
In these days you will find yourself away from home, working in a place of strangers. Your evening and night will be spent alone in an anonymous house and you will not find any diversion. My advice is to make like old Japanese fishers in 1800, they were used to keep under the pillow an erotic (or pornographic) image. Most of these images were drawn by painters and represented naked geishas and a tentacular partner, an octopus or something similarly fantastic. Use your fantasy to find a piece of eroticism in your solitude.
This week your partner will come up with a new fantasy: choosing your clothes. He will ask for a short dress, with a suspender bait under it and high heels. It will be difficult and frustrating to fulfill his desires and at the end he will undress you with patience, looking into your eyes and he will slowly make love with you. His sweetness and his care will win your soul and in the future you will wait again for his advice about how to dress and behave.
This time the astrological previsions will predict for you a new, energetic and very sticky partner. He’ll be always messaging to you, he will complain about his work and provide you with funny jokes and clever entertainment. But he well be too sticky for you so after some meetings and some sex you’ll be tired of him. Don’t try to change his affliction with his work and his stickiness. Just abandon this new lover!!!!
Dear Capricorn, how much time have you spent without making love or sex to anyone? Don’t you miss this side of you? Maybe you think you have forgotten the right way to do it. You should take advantage of an English writer, Henry Miller. He is rude and dirty when he is speaking about making love, he considers his partner as a mere object of desire, his greed doesn’t go over that and his psychology is flat as a snowboard. But he finds a lot of women to fulfill his fantasies. He even has a a wife, a very dark and fascinating lady. Try to consider the opposite sex as an object of desire, more than anything else, not as a friend, not as a brother or sister, but only as the ultimate goal of your wishes. Probably this will do the trick…
The writer Anais Nin was involved, staying at her diaries, in a triangle with a couple, Henry and June. The two members of this couple were married and in love with each other. She was in love with both of them, noticing their affliction, their character and their qualities while making love with both of them. I suggest you to try this kind of triangle once in your life, not the random kind of triangle, but one which amuses your consciousness and your senses in a melting pot of affectivity and mindfulness. This will enrich your life and will not affect your sexual power.